My militant Negro side grieves for what black, brown, gay, trans, disabled people etc will suffer under Trump. And my soft feminine side grieves for Hillary even though she was never going to be anyone’s savior… but I feel for her. When I was a teenager in the 90s there weren’t many women like her in the public eye, black or white. I grew up listening to her and watching her and respecting her.
If you believe that sexism has no power just remind yourself that we live in a world where for all practical purposes the depravity and stupidity of Anthony Wiener lost her an election to be President of the United States.